Can I hand it to my kids and still get paid?
Selling a business to a family member can give you the retirement income you need and keep your name on the trucks. It can also strain a family for years if it is done on a handshake. The difference is almost always the same four things: a fair price, a written payment plan, a licensed successor, and an honest conversation with the children who are not in the business.
This page explains how each piece works in plain terms. It is not tax or legal advice. Gifts, estates and family sales have rules that turn on your numbers and your state, so use this to prepare for a meeting with your CPA and an attorney who does business transfers.
Treat it as a real deal
Many owners say their kids do not want the business, and the question becomes what the company is worth beyond equipment and real estate. If one of yours does want it, that is good news. But a family buyer is still a buyer. Gallup found that 74% of employer business owners plan to sell or transfer the business when they step away, yet most lack a written succession plan.
A real deal means:
- a price based on what the company earns, not on what feels fair at Thanksgiving;
- a signed purchase agreement and promissory note;
- a plan for the license, insurance, bonding and bank accounts;
- a date when you stop making decisions.
Step 1: Set a fair price
Start with a range. Our free estimate gives you an illustrative range based on what you tell us, and the plumbing valuation, HVAC valuation and roofing valuation pages show how it is built. It is an educational estimate, not an appraisal.
The price matters for tax as well as for fairness. The IRS treats as a gift any transfer where full consideration is not received. So if you sell to your daughter for well below what the business is worth, part of that sale may be a gift. For 2026 the IRS lists an annual exclusion of $19,000 per person receiving a gift ($38,000 for a married couple giving jointly), and the giver is generally the one responsible for any gift tax. Ask your CPA whether you need a formal appraisal, how a discount would be treated, and whether a gift return is needed.
Some owners choose a mix on purpose: a sale at a fair price, plus gifts over time as part of their estate plan. That is a decision for you, your CPA and an estate attorney.
Step 2: Agree how you get paid
Most children do not have the cash to buy a business outright. The usual answer is a down payment plus a seller note: you lend them most of the price and they pay you from the profits over several years.
Worked example: A family sale paid over time (made-up numbers)
A plumbing company with an agreed price of $1,200,000.
| Piece | Amount | When |
|---|---|---|
| Down payment (10%) | $120,000 | At closing |
| Seller note | $1,080,000 | Paid over 8 years with interest |
| Your consulting fee | $4,000 a month | First 12 months, separate agreement |
Before interest, $1,080,000 over 8 years is $135,000 a year. The company must be able to pay that, plus your son's salary, plus the trucks, and still have cash for a slow winter. If the business earns $300,000 a year before owner pay, that is tight but workable. If it earns $180,000, the note needs a longer term or a lower price.
What a seller note should spell out (your attorney writes it):
- Interest. A note with no interest or very low interest can create tax problems. The IRS says if an installment contract lacks adequate stated interest, part of the principal can be treated as interest using the applicable federal rate.
- Payment schedule. Monthly is common and easier to track.
- Security. What you can take back if payments stop, for example the shares or the equipment.
- What happens if they cannot pay. A grace period, a restructuring option, and the point where you step back in.
- Your role. A separate consulting or employment agreement, so your pay for working is not mixed with the price.
Because you get paid over years, a seller note is usually an installment sale for tax purposes. Under the IRS rules you report the gain as you receive payments. That can spread out the tax, but it also means your retirement depends on the business doing well under your child. Run your numbers in the net proceeds calculator with your expected down payment and term.
Step 3: Solve the license before anything else
In the trades, the license often belongs to a person, not the company. If you hold it, your son or daughter may not be able to run jobs the day you step away.
| Trade and state | The rule | What it means for a family sale |
|---|---|---|
| Plumbing, Texas | A Responsible Master Plumber can be the RMP of record for only one company at a time | Your child needs their own RMP license, or you stay as RMP for a period |
| Any trade, Florida | If the only qualifying agent leaves, the company has 60 days to employ another | Have your child qualified before you leave |
| Any trade, California | A departing qualifier must be replaced within 90 days | A licensed employee or child can qualify the company |
| Plumbing, Massachusetts | The master plumber of record must be an officer of a corporation or a manager of an LLC | Your child, if licensed, should hold that role |
If your child is a journeyman today, the path to a master license can take years. Start now. Plumbing owners should read does my license transfer when I sell. Rules vary by state, so check with your licensing board.
Step 4: Be fair to the children who are not in the business
This is where family sales go wrong most often. One child gets the company and the others feel left out, or the child running the business feels the others are living off his work.
Ways families handle it (talk these through with an estate attorney):
- Sell at a fair price, not a gift. The child in the business pays full value, and the money becomes part of your estate for everyone.
- Balance with other assets. Other children receive savings, real estate or other property of similar value.
- Keep the building separate. You keep the building and rent it to the company. The rent is income for you, and the building can go to whoever your estate plan says.
- Put it in writing and tell everyone. Surprises at a funeral cause more damage than a hard talk at the kitchen table.
Step 5: Give it 2 to 3 years
Advisers tell trade owners to start at least three years ahead. A family sale needs that time even more, because your child has to learn the parts of the job you do without thinking.
| When | What happens |
|---|---|
| Years 3 to 2 before | Get a value range; child starts the license path; clean up books; talk to your CPA and attorney |
| Year 2 before | Child takes over estimating, hiring or one crew; you meet as a family about siblings and the estate plan |
| Year 1 before | Agree price and terms; attorney drafts the purchase agreement and note; plan your role |
| Closing to year 2 after | Child runs the company; you consult part time; note payments start |
For the role you play after closing, read should I stay on after selling, or walk away. If no family member wants it, a key employee may, so read could my foreman or GM buy me out.
Common mistakes
- No written agreement. A handshake deal leaves you with no recourse if payments stop.
- A price that is really a gift. A sale far below fair value can create gift tax questions you did not plan for.
- Forgetting the license. If you are the only license holder and you leave, the company may not be able to work.
- A note the business cannot carry. Payments sized on hope, not on actual profit, put your retirement and your child at risk.
- Staying the boss. If you keep making every decision, your child never learns, and your note depends on them learning.
- Leaving siblings out of the conversation. Fairness talked through now is cheaper than a family fight later.
Questions to ask your CPA, attorney or planner
- What is a fair price range, and do I need a formal appraisal for this sale?
- If I sell below fair value, how much is treated as a gift, and do I need to file a gift return?
- What interest rate does the seller note need to avoid tax problems?
- How is the seller note taxed as I receive payments?
- What security should I take, and what happens if payments stop?
- How do I keep things fair for my children who are not in the business?
- Does my child need their own license before closing, and how long will that take?
- Do the note payments plus my other income cover what I spend each year?
Sources
- Reddit r/Roofing, Has anyone ever sold their roofing company?
- Gallup, Most Small-Business Owners Lack a Succession Plan
- IRS, Frequently asked questions on gift taxes
- IRS, Topic no. 705, Installment sales
- Texas State Board of Plumbing Examiners, Responsible Master Plumber
- Florida Statutes 489.119, Business organizations; qualifying agents
- California CSLB, Change in Personnel
- Mass.gov, Apply for a plumbing business license
- Contracting Business, The 12 Essential Steps for a Profitable Contracting Exit Strategy, Part I
Questions owners ask
Can I sell my business to my son for a dollar?
You can sign anything, but the IRS treats a transfer without full value as a gift, so most of the value would likely be a gift for tax purposes. It also gives you no retirement income from the business. Talk to your CPA before setting a low price.
How long should a family seller note run?
There is no single rule. It should be long enough that the business can make the payments from real profit in a slow year, and short enough that you are paid while you still need the money. Your CPA can test several terms against the company's cash flow.
Does my license transfer to my child?
Usually not automatically. In many states the license or qualifier belongs to a person, so your child needs to qualify the company or you stay on as the license holder for a while. Check your state board's rules early because the path can take years.
Do I need a broker to sell to family?
Usually a broker is not needed, because you already have a buyer. You do need a CPA for the price and tax side and an attorney for the purchase agreement, the note and the estate plan.
Related guides
Could my foreman or GM buy me out?
Selling my business to an employee: how a foreman or GM can buy you out with a seller note, an SBA loan or in stages, plus license and ESOP basics.
Is what I would get enough to retire on?
Is selling my business enough to retire on? Start with what you net, turn it into a yearly income range, then add Social Security and savings.
Should I stay on after selling, or walk away?
Staying on after selling your business can raise the price and smooth the handover. Roles, consulting deals, earnouts and a 1 to 3 year plan.
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